Who has not observed intelligent, well-trained, well without the man is unable, for the life she wanted, which ultimately stop consuming despair and anger? As you Flegel Gorillas on wheels, with great force, but no effect on the whole.
Why did this happen? A possible answer is that the theories, models for everything that happens around life, but no possibility to verify the accuracy of their ideas. She could not understand that all information removes the entrance to their conscience. It is impossible, overall data flow direction of our past. Note the recent detection tests, either himself identified with the political left or right can see the deficiencies in the other party’s arguments, but not their own. This is typical of gender or religious Bias. Men and women, Christians and Muslims, Believer and atheist … all are vulnerable to this trend.
If we succeed, trade, artists, directors, teachers, or simply people, we need a world of cosmology vu. But we also need an epistemology of understanding of how we collect information and a method to determine if our methods of collection or correlation or extrapolation are true. Since experimentation with the outside world is often on us, the only laboratory test, we have our ideas, our own lives: our bodies, our careers, our relationships. For some, these are aspects of us as well beyond, but we have much more control, that we have here of events in the outside world because the events at international politics. How can we meet the needs of our customers, if we do not really understand the strength and human weakness? How does a writer realistic character if, in mass self-deception? How a parent or teacher to help a child to maturity is done without delay?
How, in other words, can we be sure that we know really what we think we know? Do you consider the possibility of us than the accuracy of our thoughts on the verification of our interactions with the three main aspects of our lives: our bodies, our careers and our relationships.
1) the body. Our bodies are our everyday behavior. They obey the laws of physics: the balance between calories and calories, must be retained. But our emotions in the way. Yes, some have slower metabolism than others. Quite correct. But it is simply a fact, as the reality that some are born into poverty. Admittedly, it is even more difficult for any inconvenience to achieve with success, there are countless examples, for those who did, and if you want to be happy in life, you must study what they have done and keep your thoughts to the closed-ja Sayers. You have no obligation for some culturally determined standard of beauty, but feel healthy, have the power you want, and with your own values. How can you know if you do? Strip down in front of a mirror. Find your own body attractive? Is this not the case, you have a lot of work must be-either physically or emotionally. Probably both!
2) career. We have balanced with revenue expenditure. It is possible to be happy (or content, or peace) in every situation of life. If you’re unhappy at work, then it is your responsibility either to modify or change your own attitude. We all persons, waste their lives fault on their jobs, if their own lack of courage and emotional / creative flexibility, it is a lock without existence of Freud. Our money flow is based on many things, including the level of service we have for our common, self-respect that motivates us to ask what we are worth, and intelligence and discipline with which we manage our finances. Creativity, empathy, determination, energy, honesty, take risks … all these things in Man factor may be more money, or the ability to develop greater satisfaction with the financial level. But without the ability to find peace and satisfaction, much to the joy of life you escape.
3) relations. The wild truth is that as you can what you can afford. The play is passion, health, intelligence, self-respect and confidence. Men and women in terrible difficulties, because it draws people in the attraction itself, and can not be honest about it. Women complain that men want beauty, while men complain that women want power. Usually you take. We’re cable, that way genetically, although the characters of beauty and power are in the culture and time. The sooner you stop to this fact, invariably, the sooner you’ll be able to make decisions on the amount of beauty or power, you’re willing (or able) to manifest in your own life, which you want. And no, this is not fair. Nobody said life is fair. But each sex seems to believe that the other side the game has manipulated to his advantage. Indeed, the less successful a man or a woman is in this area, the less likely they are to collect a truth: If women were men, she could behave like men. If men were women, she could behave like women. Stop pointing the finger, and the game!
In each of these three arenas, there are painful truths we must face: the man is wise and good and strong, and spiritual. Unfortunately, we are lazy, dishonest, confused, childlike and simply wants the world to recognize that our genius and follow our advice. Why should the world, our customers, our audience, our children, listen to us, unless we are honest with ourselves?
When creating characters, often to make every one a mistake in one of these arenas, then a field, teach, the character of a lesson they need to heal. In the world of advertising, almost all products are appealing to one of these three areas: sex, power, or health. Fail to understand how human beings are these needs: or, as almost all no balance in all three of them, and you miss a primary motivation in human history. If we can not understand or communicate effectively with our own mental health. What we hope to understand them effectively?
Control is a means, not a place. We do not need millionaires with natural bodybuilders married movie stars with progress towards the clarity and power. But we must take responsibility. We must admit that we want health and happiness and love. And the move with discipline and joy on the road to a future we can feed and care. What we learn in this way, the truth of what we are. And the truth will liberate you.